My Love/Hate Relationshiop with November

I can write this now that the month is nearly over. November has turned into our craziest month of the year. Most people start their stress in December, but mine eases considerably as soon as Thanksgiving weekend is over! I have lots of blogs in my head that need to be created and posted, but this one will have to do for now while I catch my breath.

November always kicks off right after Halloween and the time that we take our annual family pictures. We started November by celebrating my dad's birthday in Decatur at which all of his sisters were there to celebrate. It was a nice surprise! My grandparents recently moved into an assisted living facility as they are unable to live independently anymore. It is a really nice place and it was great being able to see all of my aunts. I volunteered to bring the cake since I was making Jacob's practice birthday cake the night before. Well, I'll talk more in another blog about this, but it turned out HORRIBLY! I tried to fix it for my dad's party, but it just got worse. Dan convinced me that it still tasted good, and since it was just family, what did it matter? Well, everyone got a kick out of it and my tears over it turned to laughter too.

The next weekend Dan and I got away for the first time since before kids. We celebrated our 11th anniversary on 11-11-11, so how could we not do something special?!! We ventured over to Peoria for the night and did some shopping, ate a nice dinner, and went to a comedy club where Kevin Pollack was performing. We had a good time! We are so grateful for my Dad and Debbie taking the kids for us!! We desperately needed the time away and it was nice :)

Jacob turned 4 a few days later and then we had his first friend and family party that weekend. I underestimated the time and energy those take! I'll share more on that later, but it was a lot of fun and went well.

The next week we celebrated Thanksgiving three days in a row with family and the weekend ended with me being sick, yet having to work a TON just to get caught up on a deadline I had. We somehow managed to get the house all decked out with Christmas decorations and lights too, which was a priority for me to get done. The kids LOVE them!

On top of everything else we both have been crazy busy with work and have also been tackling home projects (more on that later). I'm leaving out a lot of other miscellaneous things that we have had going on, but you get the drift.

After proofing this, I realize this comes across as whiny. As stressful as November is and as exhausted as it makes me, each event was filled love, laughter, family, friends, and great memories. I would do it all over again in a heartbeat. Looking back, each year gets busier than the last, so I guess it strengthens you for what's ahead :)